Transition

In terms of this blog space , I feel as if I had just left Mumbai & come to Gurgaon ...now it is back to square one !!! I RESIGNED !! :-) This time it is Pune .... Wow..just thinking about the Pune express highway & the kind of memories it evokes !!! My heart races just to think of it !!! :-) I guess it would be yet another brief stay in Pune..... Still ...hoping to enjoy the beauty of the place .... Could not move around Gurgaon (apart from the malls ofcourse !!) and Delhi the way I had hoped before coming here...been to Delhi maybe only twice or thrice... Mostly because of my own laziness, the heat & the BIG transport issues ... A month left for me to leave Gurgaon... this place has also changed me in some way.. Given more confidence.. a better sense of presenting myself ... given me a Will do attitude ... a better me !!! Also some very sweet friends & sweeter memories !!! Signing off Sundari

COMMITMENT is scary … ask any twenty five plus male or female at the threshold of exchanging those sacred vows and who plan to plunge into holy matrimony…They are filled with all sorts of premonitions of what is going to become wrong ..Oh yes…the excitement is there … the joy of calling somebody your own…a companion for life…but there is an essential fear of all this not happening the way you want it… ‘Pre marital or just pre alliance seeking phase’ jitters is a definite state of mind when you feel everything is going to go wrong with the relationship …the romantic illusions that you are having are going to burst…the oh-so perfect picture of you and your life partner walking off into the sunset will become marred by a lot of suddenly sprouting insecurities – whether he/she is the person for you …will he ever satisfy your needs… will she ever understand your priorities…will she ever understand what it means to do the things you want to do…would I be able to get along with this person an