To Love , Honor & Cherish !!

I am the kind of person who cannot keep things inside me for long … It is very rare that I keep secrets… and mostly such secrets still remain secrets because of loads of dire threatening & warning … and yeah sometimes caution prevails and I vow myself to never utter a word outside about it … But if something is 'happening' in my own life… then it is sometimes a wonder that I do not climb the nearest mountain & shout it out till either my lungs or my throat give up...

There is a sweet turn of events in life … What can I say!! :-)

He came, he smiled and he conquered …

And one of the most difficult questions in my life was solved owing to a smile… :-)

I have always been fascinated by the Christian Sacred vows of Matrimony…
How true the words ring out ….

I take thee
to be my wedded husband/wife . .
to have and to hold..
from this day forward . . .
for better, for worse . . .
for richer, for poorer . . .
in sickness and in health . . .
'till death do us part . . . and thereto I plight you my troth.

Hmm…I will not get a chance to say these exact words...Because for one my marriage will be conducted in Sanskrit and I would be mostly put into mute …
But in my heart of hearts I will be singing out loud & clear … :-)

“I do…”


Signing off
Sundari

Comments

Anonymous said…
Secrets !! Everybody has some !!!.. some can keep them .. some will have to erupt like volcano spreading the heat wave … Well.. now I am going to do the later ;o)

I met this girl who had the charm to make me realise what really lies within me…….. One thing.. I treasured the most is that she believed in me like no one ever has …

From that day I told myself….. ‘I will give in everything to keep her smiling not just the days to come but every second she is with me’……
Anonymous said…
Hey,

A very sweet post :) & very sweet comment by karthik :)

Congrats to both of you!!

Wish you both a very Happy & Joyful life ahead!!!

Cheers!
Prady
Anonymous said…
Almost all the religions convey the same meaning.it is a pity that you don't understand the meaning, because you don't know the language.
Sundari said…
To Karthik
Thanks for everything honey !!
To Prady
Thanks for commenting di ..I know it is really boring to comment..but I know it was a heartfelt one ...
To Suraj
I have watched Seinfeld once or twice ... good that you left the link ...now I know who's who in the series ..
:-))

To amma

illa ma... am not saying that the christian kind of ceremony is better ...it is just that there is no clear understanding of ours becos of the language barrier (as u said) ... & ours includes a lot of rituals..so keeping track of all of them is a bit hard...while the christian marriage has only one main thing..just a vow taken in front of god ... very simple ...
but again ...we (Indians - Hindus) like a lot of variety (owing to the plurality of our culture) and it should be like it is now...
Pinku said…
Hi!

Am coming to this for the second time. The first time I read your post, was too rushed to be able to comment.
Its lovely to read both your and Karthik's comment and I can see flowers or no flowers love definetely has bloomed!!!!!!!!!
Hope it stays like that forever. Touchwood.
ALl the best guys!!!
bugs said…
Sweet post...and it is very much visible that love is in the air.

Wish you all the best and may this love stays young forever.

And yes the idea of getting married in christian way is really beutiful....

Bugs.
Anonymous said…
Hi, reading ur blog after a long time. nice to know u r getting married.congrats and all the best
Love makes life beautiful!
Marriage is the nicest thing, which can happen in one’s life!
The beauty of arranged marriage lies in understanding each other & making adjustments for the life partner...
I wish the couple, a very happy marriage life!

***

//He came, he smiled and he conquered …//

Sweet line…

//But in my heart of hearts I will be singing out loud & clear//

Here again…
Anonymous said…
Hey Sundari...
I am very happy for Karthik a.k.a Ksad (as he's known amongst us in the office!) and U. Congrats on finding each other...U definitely seem have had a very positive impact on SADman...and it shows in his glowing smiles! Am sure this will continue forever.
Live the good life and GOD BLESS!
Cheers!
Sharat
Anonymous said…
Hey stop everyone, I am the one who made them meet and am responsible for all the love in air and I am proud to have found a perfect match for sundari. Wish them both a very happy married life.
bye
Anks said…
just sauntered in here and found this oh-so-sweet post... very happy for you.... congrats :D
Anonymous said…
Hi Lavanya,
Realy sweet post.. all i can say is it left a smile on my face.. and yes karthik's reply enhanced it!
All the best for ur future.
May God Bless u both!!

Love,
Arpita (In case u've trouble recalling- ur old pg mate :))
Pinku said…
Hey!

You seem to have disappeared from the blogging world.

Whats up? Do write something new or is Karthik to blame for this disappearance act.
Anonymous said…
reading ur blogs after a looooooooooooong gap..
have read many a times before but never commented as used to be confused wot to write..
hmm but dear.. this post of urs has made me write at last...
It was tooooooooooooo sweet a post.. those words
"I take thee
to be my wedded husband/wife . .
to have and to hold..
from this day forward . . .
for better, for worse . . .
for richer, for poorer . . .
in sickness and in health . . .
'till death do us part . . . and thereto I plight you my troth."
made the blog sweeter..
Had heard a lot about Karthik and he already had a nice impression but this comment has enforced it still..I now know dear, he will keep u happy always..
keep loving guys..
Had read an invitation card which had a very sweet sentence which read
" born unknown to each other,
n now beginning a journey together"

so guys, Enjoy the new journey together..

lots a lov n wishes
Asha
Anonymous said…
Conguratulation to both of you.
Anonymous said…
idhellam konjam too much aa theriyala

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